The younger woman in Colombia

[Don Gringo]

Interesting subject to me since I have been the longest in my life without a serious relationship. Lately been seeing this lady or that. Nothing real serious as I have other commitments to the kids so this is on the side.

But I thought I would write about it anyway. It seems to me and living here 7 years I have seen this and is only my own experience. I am sure being a gringo also has effected my experiences a great deal. Also I don't hang with women in bars and such. I find that the married women will give you a straight conversation, if there is some conflict be it business or friends you can get a straight deal. I also find this from younger girls, 20 to 26. I have employees that age and it is refreshing to talk with them since they do not try to manipulate me, lie to me or try to play me. Now the women that are 30 and over and single? Holy shit it is a nightmare, an impossible sewage treament plant pumping out lies and manipulation, they can change watever situation to where they are right, everyone is wrong. How do you learn and grow in a relationship like that? I completely understand why men here have women on the side. They have given up, can't blame them or they are just a dog anyway. ;) It is impossible to have an intimate relationship with these self centered stuck up women. If they have any looks and are over 30 and single....there ya go. I am so tired of it I can tell you that. 7 years 7 years and it is always the same with older women.

If you happen to see me with a 20 year old all I can tell you is the older ones had their chance for 7 years. jaja I am putting honesty and sincerety first, it is incredible how honest and sincere the conversations are.

[Don Gringo]

Makes me wonder how a relationship would be. I have never dated young girls here. Then I have never met so many manipulating women either and have changed my priorities....hmmmm I might chalk it up to new experiences. ;)

I remember the advice of my neighbor who was a vietnam vet, hated the fact I was considering going into the military. Told m that when you get out all the good women will be married and gone. Yep!

I am sure there are good women out there who are single and older. I am also sure there are many who are exactly as I described and it is normal for them. The men here put up with it because they are beautiful with nice bodies and all they want is in their pants. So it is furtile ground for these women to mature into self centered bitches.

[Don Gringo]

Makes me wonder how a relationship would be. I have never dated young girls here. Then I have never met so many manipulating women either and have changed my priorities....hmmmm I might chalk it up to new experiences. ;)

I remember the advice of my neighbor who was a vietnam vet, hated the fact I was considering going into the military. Told m that when you get out all the good women will be married and gone. Yep!

I am sure there are good women out there who are single and older. I am also sure there are many who are exactly as I described and it is normal for them. The men here put up with it because they are beautiful with nice bodies and all they want is in their pants. So it is furtile ground for these women to mature into self centered bitches.

[Morgus]

Younger women in Colombia are underrated. When I met my GF in Colombia, she was 18. She seemed more mature than 30 year olds I dated in the US. The truth is, men are'nt looking for an equal. Those relationships usually fail. Also women that are overly ambitious is a turn off too. I prefer a woman thats on her knees when I walk through the door. Thats how it is in Japan and marriages work great there. A little on the side helps too.

[Don Gringo]

on her knees haha. Women want a nice guy around to wine and bitch to but they really need and also want is the night on the horse and hell if it matters if he is a nice guy....better if he is not is the truth cause that guy is not nice. Beats me but I think tere is something too that.

So yea the older they get the more independent they get and the more completely frickin lost they get as to what they want. Yep the younger girl is the way to go. I am heading to the coast to exchange two burros for a virgin! jaja